build: Upgrade some of the backend dev-tooling (no-changelog) (#4589)

* upgrade ts-node

* move tslint and typescript to a single place

* source-map-support should be loaded in the `n8n` bin script, and not in core

* upgrade jest

* Support only node.js 14, 16, or 18

packages/core/package.json

@@ -35,8 +35,7 @@
     "@types/lodash.get": "^4.4.6",
     "@types/mime-types": "^2.1.0",
     "@types/request-promise-native": "~1.0.15",
-    "@types/uuid": "^8.3.2",
-    "source-map-support": "^0.5.9"
+    "@types/uuid": "^8.3.2"
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "axios": "^0.21.1",