ci: Start supporting node.js 18 (#4518)

* ci: start supporting node.js 18

Node.js 18 becomes the active LTS on 2022-10-25, as Node.js 16 goes into maintenance mode.
https://github.com/nodejs/Release#release-schedule

* continue using node 16 for production images

* node 16 for debian and base images as well for now

packages/nodes-base/package.json

@@ -738,7 +738,7 @@
     "@types/mailparser": "^2.7.3",
     "@types/mime-types": "^2.1.0",
     "@types/mssql": "^6.0.2",
-    "@types/node": "^16.11.22",
+    "@types/node": "^18.11.9",
     "@types/nodemailer": "^6.4.0",
     "@types/promise-ftp": "^1.3.4",
     "@types/redis": "^2.8.11",